A Happy Home

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A Happy Home

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Maddox has now been in the world for four weeks, and having him in our home has been an absolute dream. My family has always had a very strong bond, but his energy has filled our home with a whole new dynamic. Our love has changed and grown even stronger than before.

 

There is no way to describe all that a mother feels for her child, but it is endless – unconditional and forever. You are so proud at any given moment about anything your kids do. They eat: you rejoice; they smile: you melt; they poop: and you praise. You’re watching the evolution of a person starting at the very beginning, and you feel so honored to witness every step they take.

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To see my daughter Weslie show Maddox so much undivided attention and devotion has made me really proud. Weslie truly loves and cares for her brother, and they share such a unique bond. She has already changed a diaper by herself and helps hold him if he needs a bit of comfort. They stare into each other’s eyes like they already know they are gonna be such good friends.

My husband Stephen is just the sweetest dad. So attentive and caring. He wants to be hands-on through it all, which I love and appreciate so much. He helps tremendously through the night hours. We have agreed on shifts, but even when it’s not his shift he comes along to make sure I’m okay, even by simply rubbing my back while I feed Maddox. Stephen hasn’t really slept in the four weeks since Maddox has been home. Bless his heart. He just stares at our new son the whole night to make sure he’s okay. But Maddox is already sleeping in the night, 4 – 5 hours at a time. What a blessing.

Stephen has not only made sure that our baby is cared for, but he engages and gives personal time to both myself and Weslie. We have made a schedule for each week that slots date nights for us as a couple, and time for each of us with each of the kids individually. We think it’s so important that everyone feels they are getting the individual attention we all deserve. At times it might feel exhausting, but we feel it’s worth it.

We all feel so happy and grateful for our health and love. Maddox has reminded me of the importance of time at home, and has brought a sort of calmness to my madness. I have always been a person brimming over with energy. I’m constantly on the move, pushing forward and onward, which I believe to be a wonderful quality; but he has brought out a softer side and a contentment in me that helps to balance my emotions. I have a constant smile on my face and I am able to enjoy and live in each moment because of him. He has already brought so much joy into our home, and I am looking forward to a lifetime of memories that our family will share.

I want to send a special thank you to all of you for your support and love for us during this time. Our family can feel the endless love and it helps us through our days. Thanks again and sending the same love back into your homes.

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– Allison Holker Boss

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Marilena Theodotou

Awww!!! I’m sooo happy for you and your family!!! You all look adorable and cute!!! I wish you to be always happy and healthy!!! Don’t forget to SMILE!!!

@marilenar5

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Lori Johnson

Awwww….so sweet. Your family is absolutely beautiful!

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Debbie Gaughran

I agree….Allison your family is absolutely beautiful!!! Wesley is a wonderful big sister to Maddox. Stephen helping you during the evening hours must be a big blessing for you. God Bless you all and thank you for sharing.

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Lara Shields

Beautiful! It’s lovely to see you so grounded and happy! Much love to all four of you.

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Heidi queen

What a beautiful family! Keep smiling!

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Karen

What a beautiful message. I am so inspired and happy for you all . Looking forward to more posts of c your adventures.

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Jeanette luker

You all are amazing and thank YOU for sharing your life with me .it is such a blessing to have a child plus the wonderful success you both are having in your lives which IS well deserved such talent and how you help others I could go on forever about both of you. Sure hope he gets those amazing dimples much love

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Diana

Allison, I have been a huge fan of both you and Stephen since the very beginning of your SYTYCD days. I was so happy when I heard of your relationship. And to see your beautiful family and know how much you all love and care for each other just makes me so happy!

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Amy L.

Your family and your marriage are truely an inspiration. You are the epitome of what a blended family should be. Wishing you nothing but happiness and continued success in whatever comes your way!

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Shae

Why is your family so perfect?!?!?!? I am so jealous of you!!! Stephen is such an amazing guy and I hope to one day find a guy that is as sweet as him. Congrats on your perfect little family.

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Selena Denton

Allison,
My family and I have been fans our you and Twitch ever since we first watched you both on SYTYCD!!! You are my all time favorite dancer and I have really enjoyed watching you dance as an All Star. I could not be happier for you and Twitch! Congratulations on your marriage, beautiful growing family, and all of your success and accomplishments. I feel like I’ve grown up with you guys in a way through television πŸ™‚ It’s so evident that you both are such a genuine, charismatic, and respectable couple. All the best in your lives and in all that you do! β™‘β™‘

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Selena Denton

Allison,
My family and I have been fans of you and Twitch ever since we first watched you both on SYTYCD!!! You are my all time favorite dancer and I have really enjoyed watching you dance as an All Star. I could not be happier for you and Twitch! Congratulations on your marriage, beautiful growing family, and all of your success and accomplishments. I feel like I’ve grown up with you guys in a way through television πŸ™‚ It’s so evident that you both are such a genuine, charismatic, and respectable couple. All the best in your lives and in all that you do! β™‘β™‘

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Milagros Carrasquillo

Congrats! I too have a newborn who is 6 weeks old and an 11 year old son. The love that my son has for his new little brother is amazing! He is showing this new side of him that is undescribable! Blessings to your new family:-)

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Raynetta Carvil

Your joy shines in every picture blessing to you all!

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Angie Holker Vaifanua

Love yall!!! You just look so happy, can’t wait to meet the lil guy. My neice, visiting from Austrslia was at the Ellen Show today with my mother in law…I wish I would have known…I would have told Stephen to wink at them, or something!! Haha. Love you cuz. You’re looking great. Love your workouts and your awesome trainer!!! Hope to see ya soon!!

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Courtney

Your pics of Maddox bring me so much joy

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Blair

Congratulations Allison! You have such a beautiful family and reading this entry truly warms my heart. Wishing y’all well now and in the future! πŸ™‚

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Jazzmine Odom

When I first saw Baby Maddox he looked like a true angel baby!!! May God bless you and your family and much more happiness to come. Thank you Stephen, Allison and Weslie for sharing your little Maddox with the world. I’m sure he makes us all happy just to look at his sweet face!!! πŸ™‚

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Jazzmine Odom

Thank you Stephen, Allison, and Weslie for sharing your sweet bundle of joy with us!!! He truly makes us happy. Like we say in my church God loves you and so do I. πŸ™‚

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Jazzmine Odom

Thank you Stephen, Allison, and Weslie for sharing your sweet bundle of joy with us!!!

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Macy

Allison you are so pretty your whole family Is I wish I could meet you so bad your baby is beautiful I hope your happy and healthy right now

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Mac

I’m so happy for you and your family. It means so much to be able to let you know how much I admire your dance. The Sia performance was the best dance I have ever seen. You have changed the way DWTS dancers perform. Your technique, so sharp, and confident, is evident in the new season. Hope you return soon. Thank you for having this site.

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Raina

You have such a beautiful family, Allison!! Congrats on baby Maddox! Been a fan of yours and Stephen’s since SYTYCD πŸ™‚

xo Raina
http://www.themamaqueen.com

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Anne Hunter

BEAUTIFUL. I’m such a fan of both you and your husband. May your joy always shine brightly

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